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下面这3句话你千万不要对别人说:
1. “I don’t care”
“我无所谓”
What they hear: “Leave me alone. I have better things to do than listen to you.”
他们听到的是:“别管我,我懒得听你们说,我有更好的事情去做。”
Explain why you would love to hear about that subject, and why “right now” is not the best time for you. Everybody matters. Not caring about someone is denying their existence: If people matter for you, you will matter for them.
解释一下你对这些其实很感兴趣,只是现在不是*的时机去倾听。每个人都很重要。不关心别人就是忽视他们的存在感,如果别人在意你,你也需要在意他们。
2. “You’re wrong”
“你错了”
What they hear: “You are stupid. You know nothing. You’re worthless.”
他们听到的是:“你是个笨蛋,你知道什么啊,你简直一文不值”。
Prefer more tactful sentences. “I would have thought that…”, “My understanding is that…” Ask questions to make sure you and the other person are working on the same assumptions.
不如换成更加隐晦的句子:“我早就应该想到...” “我的理解是...” 问问题能保证你和其他人在商榷同一个假设。
3. “You can’t do it”
“你做不到的”
What they hear: “You don’t have what it takes to do it, no matter how hard you try; So why do you even try?”
他们听到的是:“无论你多努力,都没有能力做到,那干嘛还要去尝试呢?”
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