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26招看穿所有人

26招看穿所有人

学校:哈尔滨市纳斯达克国际英语学校 时间:2013-4-18 9:27:53

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To start, always get a baseline reading so you can distinguish personal quirks from real tells.
首先,你要进行一些对于价值基准的理解,那样你才能区分个人癖好和真正能告诉你对方想法的东西。
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Notice others trying to read your baseline with seemingly innocuous questions like, "How are you today?"
发觉别人试图通过貌似无关痛痒的问题打探你的价值基准,比如“你今天过得怎么样?”。
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When you have a chance to ask questions, be pointed and observe without interrupting.
当你有机会提问时,要直截了当,并不断地观察。
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An expansive pose means somebody feels like they're in power; when they're more hunched, they feel powerless.
一个放松的姿势意味着某人觉得他们掌控着局势;当他们很拘束时,他们觉得力不从心。
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Word choice provides insight into what people really mean.
用词的选择给了我们洞察人们真实意图的机会。
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There are an array of non-verbal authority signals leaders use.
有一套领导专用的非语言权威信号。
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Always watch the hands. Palm up gestures indicate submission, palm down gestures indicate power.
注意看手。手心向上的姿势代表了屈服,手心向下的姿势代表着强硬。
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Crossed legs are are usually a sign of resistance and low receptivity, and are a bad sign in a negotiation.
两腿交叉经常是一种抗拒和不接受的信号。在谈判中是一个不好的信号。
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High activity levels, like a bouncing foot or animated gestures, indicate interest and excitement.
较高的活跃指数,比如蹦蹦跳跳或者幅度大的动作,都表明了感兴趣和兴奋。
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Always know your biases, and be wary of the power of attraction.
必须清楚地了解自己的偏好,提防被有个人魅力的人所吸引。
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When a person leans with their torso away from you, this can mean that the person is going through a moment of stress.
当一个人把身体朝远离你的方向倾斜时,这也许意味着他感到了一丝压力。
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Gestures like touching the forehead or the rubbing of palms against thighs are indicators of stress as well.
诸如抚摸前额和在大腿上摩擦手掌的动作也表明了压力。
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Facial clues of distress and discomfort include the furrowing of the brow, clenching of jaws, lip compression, or the tightening of face and neck muscles.
表明压力和不适的面部线索包括皱眉,咬牙,抿嘴,或者紧缩头部和颈部的肌肉。
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If someone closes their eyes for a moment (longer than a simple blink), takes the time to clear their throat, or asks to repeat a question, he or she is probably stalling.
假如某人闭起眼睛一段时间(超过普通的眨眼),花时间清了清喉咙,或者要求重复问题,他或她可能心不在焉了。
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A lack of eye contact, or excessive blinking or fidgeting are signs that a person may be lying — but these are also signs of anxiety, and many liars are still easily able to look you in the eye and spew deceit.
不做眼神交流,不停地眨眼睛,或者坐立不安,这些有可能是说谎的信号,但也有可能表明了焦虑。而且有很多说谎者都能很容易地看着你的眼睛滔滔不绝地说谎。
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Once you have a baseline, look for clusters rather than a single tell.
当你把握住了价值基准,关注话语群而不是单句话语。
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Be aware of context. Crossing arms doesn't mean anything if its cold.
注意环境。双手交叉在冷天并不能代表什么。
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Watch out for people that subtly imitate your gestures and expressions.
假如有人刻意模仿你的动作或神态,你要对他小心了。
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Other potential indicators of deceit are descriptive vagueness or a quavering voice.
含糊不清的描述和颤抖的声音也都是欺骗的信号。
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Touching the notch in the front-middle of the neck can means that the person is trying to protect themselves — suggesting discomfort, especially in women.
抚摸脖子中间的凹陷处或许意味着此人在尝试自我保护,这暗示了其感到不适,尤其如果对方是女性。
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Pupil constriction and squinting can mean that a person is bothered by what he or she is seeing.
瞳孔收缩和斜视或许以为着此人被他所看到的东西困扰到了。
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A long, audible exhale — known as a cathartic exhale — means that the person is under severe emotional distress.
又长又大声的呼气声意味着此人正经历强烈的痛苦情绪。
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To improve your technique at spotting signs, observe children and what they do when they try to tell a white lie.
通过观察孩子以及他们撒小谎时的举动,你能够提高你捕捉信号的能力。
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Most things people say try to accomplish one of four goals: to be a mover, opposer, follower, or bystander.
人们说话大部分是为了达到四个目的:成为一个鼓动者,反对者,追随者或者旁观者。
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When practicing reading people, get feedback about your accuracy. If not, you'll never know if you're improving.
当你练习解读他人时,要测试你的准确性。假如不这么做你永远不知道你是否有所进步。
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Learning how to read people must occur over time — a weeklong crash course won't cut it.
学习如何解读他人是一个长期的过程,一周的短训并不能奏效。
 
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