【厦门韦博英语】单身女生看过来：你为什么没有男朋友的20个原因
【厦门韦博英语】单身女生看过来：你为什么没有男朋友的20个原因
In fact, there are certain behaviors that actually telegraph that you are not relationship material. Becoming aware of those behaviors, and getting rid of them, can be very powerful in changing the way that you are perceived.
事实上，你的一些行为表明你不是谈恋爱的料儿。如果你意识到这些行为，改掉它们，那么别人会认为你发生了巨大的变化。
My 20 tough love reasons for why you don’t have a boyfriend:
我认为你没有男朋友的20个原因：
1. You’re needy. You met him last weekend, he texted a few times, and now you just won’t leave the guy alone. This is probably the#1 behavior that gets girls labeled psychoin the early days.
你太需要关爱。你上周末才遇见他，他给你发过几次短信，你就不想让他独自待着了，这可能是被人认为“不正常”的头号原因。
2. You like players. You can’t resist the bad boys, the ones who have dumped on other women. You think that you will be different, that nabbing a player will validate your feminine powers. But the player always wins, because the player always walks.
你喜欢花花公子。你无法拒绝那些甩过女朋友的坏男人。你觉得自己与众不同，能捕获花花公子的心说明自己有女人味。但是花花公子总是会赢，因为他们总是会离开。
3. You’re a princess. You want a man who will will worship the very ground you walk on. Do you really want a guy who will eagerly go to a bunch of chick flicks withyou? Wouldn’t you rather accompany him to Transformers from time to time?
你是一个公主。你想要一个拜倒在你脚下的男朋友。你真的想要一个总想和你一起看言情电影的男人吗？为什么不在有空时和他一起去看看《变形金刚》呢。
4. You flirt too much. Flirting is an essential skill in any woman’s toolkit. It is meant to indicate to a guy thatyou are singling him out for special attention because you are attracted to him. If you flirt like crazy withevery Y chromosome you encounter, it loses its effectiveness, and makes you seem “not very choosy.”
你太爱调情。调情是女性的必杀技，用于你被某个男性吸引，想引起他注意的时候。如果你见到一个男性就和他调情，那么它就会失去作用，并且会让你看起来“没那么讲究”。
